Do you know that the tradition of gift giving can be dated back as far as cavemen? In the ancient years, commoners would deliver pieces of meat to show their appreciation to loved ones while tribe leaders used them to compliment one for their contributions.
Fast-forward to the 21st century, gifting is a common practice among many; from an exciting birthday present for your friend’s kid to a formal wedding gift to your sister-in-law. Hence, here are 5 gifting cultures that are practiced by people around the world.
China
For the connection-centric Chinese people, they believe that people who are polite will receive kindness and favours. This is called “Li Shang Wang Lai” in Chinese. When receiving a gift from someone, they will offer back only when it is suitable. Gifts should be given as a form of respect and must be wrapped properly.
Examples of popular gifts: Home supplies, engraved pens, and a lavish dinner.
Japan
When giving a gift in Japan, you should be very cautious. Japanese people consider gifts important, rather than just a kind gesture. It is also advisable not to surprise them as they might feel embarrassed when their gift cannot be reciprocated in time. Therefore, it is desirable for you to drop a hint about your present. The gift should also be given in private.
Examples of popular gifts: Hand towels, jewellery, or packaged sweets.
Zimbabwe
The happy-go-lucky Zimbabweans are more than grateful to accept presents, where it is common for one to directly ask for a present.However, it is advisable not to give an overly-expensive present as it can be considered as a form of bribery. They also prefer to express their gratitude using physical gestures, rather than verbally reciprocating with a “thank you”.
Examples of popular gifts: Food and personal items from outside of Zimbabwe.
Russia
Russians are more romantic, they enjoy spending more on their gifts. Good quality chocolate, tea or flowers are preferred over low quality ones such as stationery and candles. Cheaper gifts are not expected to be wrapped in paper, but pricier ones should be wrapped and went along with a card. When attending a social event, it is also considered disrespectful to arrive empty-handed, so always be prepared!
Examples of popular gifts: Expensive chocolate, dessert items and good wine.
America
Gift giving in America is less strict and formal. The most important thing is making sure that the present is thoughtful and represents what you aim to express. Gift opening may or may not happen in front of you, as it depends on the receiver’s personal preference. Exchanging gifts is popular on celebrations and festivals, but can also be considered as a token of friendship and love casually.
Examples of popular gifts: Personalised stationery, shareable food items, and hand-made gift.
Although different cultures practise their own way of giving gifts, we can all agree that gifting connects people and is a meaningful way for us to share our joy. Remember to always give with a grateful heart!
